in a bdsm marriage the slave will obey his Mistress!
Starting with a simple checklist of our fetishes and desires, my husband and I managed to bring our relationship back from the brink
As someone who teaches and practises BDSM, it's disheartening to see how popular Fifty Shades of Grey's distorted portrayal of it has become. Yes, but for us, the Dominant it's me.
My husband and I met when we were both quite young. Before we married, we’d already incorporated bondage into our sex life, and dominance and submission naturally found a place in our bedroom. Even before we discovered BDSM, our sex would never have qualified as “vanilla”.
However, at the time sex had never been something we bothered discussing in great detail, and because of this lack of communication about our desires, we slowly grew apart. After a while, we started feeling as though we had lost our connection to each other.
But then I discovered the femdom.dating community. I was excited to find there were other Mistresses like me, hungry for information and willing to learn about it.
We tried a few things we liked and a few others we didn’t, but eventually we found ourselves very happily in a dominant/submissive dynamic, where impact play (such as spanking and whipping), service (performing personal tasks for the dominant partner), and bondage were common. As well as being thoroughly enjoyable, doing this also helped heal some of the issues we had come across in the first few years of our marriage.
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